His father and half-brother are the same: they are both cheaters. So, why would he waste his time and energy on them when he can have a huge birthday party for his cat?
Normal Brotherhood
OP (Original Poster), an 18-year-old man, has a relatively good relationship with his 19-year-old half-brother even though their dad cheated on OP’s mom with his mother.
Objectifying His Wife
OP’s father’s excuse for the affair was that he thought his mom would never be able to “provide a child.”
Not His Fault
Regardless, OP never blamed his half-brother for what his parents did, and they got along reasonably well.
An Unforgivable Betrayal
However, when OP found out that his half-brother had been sleeping with his then-girlfriend, who was 18, he blocked him. It’s been four months, and he still hasn’t talked to him.
Birthday Twins
OP’s cat, Claire, and his half-brother have the same birthday. So, over the past few years, OP would attend his half-sibling’s party in the morning and then throw his cat’s birthday party afterward.
A Cat Party!
The day before OP shared his story, instead of the usual, he decided to have an early and extra-long party for his cat with his mom, aunts, and friends. Everyone adored Claire.
Make the First Move
OP didn’t attend his half-brother’s birthday, so his dad called and accused him of being a “bad brother” for not “forgiving” and “reconciling” with him.
A Victim’s Refusal
Then and there, OP told his father that his half-brother was the one who betrayed him, adding that he’s not interested in conciliation.
Nothing Compared to Claire
Afterward, his dad asked him if his cat was more important, and OP said yes.
He added, “I would always choose my cat over him.”
Too Cruel
OP’s three aunts, who are all of his mom’s sisters, hate his dad for cheating on her. However, one of them told OP that he was a bit too harsh on his father.
But was he?
The Community’s Points of View
Redditors were amused with OP’s actions and how he was able to make his half-brother feel unimportant.
The top commenter wrote, “Not the a**hole, but holy s***, this made me laugh. I love the idea that even on a good day, your brother only gets half your attention because you throw an entire party for your cat. I can’t imagine a wound cutting deeper than a cat having a better party than you. F*** that guy, you owe him nothing.”
The Apple Doesn’t Fall Far From the Tree
People argued that OP’s dad doesn’t see anything wrong with OP’s half-brother being a cheater because he’s one himself. If Redditors were OP, they’d also distance themselves from people who made a fool of them.
A Redditor wrote, “Your half-brother is no better than your dad and has zero respect for you. Just cut him off, cat or no cat.”
Someone said, “Not the a**hole. Your father was a cheat. Of course, he would see what your older brother did as not that big a deal. Whatever your father’s reason for cheating, a very selfish man from what you have said, and whatever reason your brother gives for sleeping with your girlfriend, such behavior is not acceptable. Cat’s birthday or not, choosing not to be around your half-brother or your father after this behavior is certainly your choice. I would likely feel the same way in your shoes. Enjoy the time with people who really care for you at your cat’s birthday party.”
As Special as Anyone Else
Animal lovers are the only people who truly understand how precious a pet can be to someone. Sometimes, they’re better than humans.
One commenter wrote, “A pet is a member of the family. People who do not have pets, don’t like animals or are not part of that particular family do not really understand how special a pet can be. So, I don’t fault OP for throwing a party for their cat. It is still family.”
Happy Birthday, Claire!
Redditors wished OP’s cat, the beautiful Claire, a happy birthday and hoped she enjoyed her day.
A person said, “Not the a**hole, and happy birthday to Claire.”
Another one commented, “It sounds like Claire is lovely. I hope Claire had a nice day.”
What can you say? Would you also choose your pet over a family member who betrayed you?
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This post first appeared as He Refused to Attend His Half-Brother’s Birthday for Cheating With His Girlfriend. His Father Said He’s a “Bad Brother,” but He’d Rather Celebrate His Cat Than Him! on Quote Ambition.
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