This working mom does everything for her child and their home. She cooks, cleans, and earns money for them. So, was asking her husband to take on some responsibilities too much?
Daycare Expenses
OP (Original Poster) is a 29-year-old woman who gave birth four months before this story was posted. Because daycare was costly, her 35-year-old husband “reluctantly agreed to stay home.”
His Day-To-Day Activities
It was important to note that OP’s husband had been unemployed since 2021; he only received benefits.
Apart from this, her husband is “extremely lazy.” OP wrote, “He doesn’t cook, clean, or help out in any way.”
Mom Guilt
Because of her husband’s personality, OP was afraid to leave her daughter alone with her dad, but she had no choice.
However, initially, it seemed her husband was doing all he could for their daughter.
Father and Daughter Time
For the first few days, whenever OP came home, she would find her daughter clean and sleeping. At other times, she would get there, and her husband would be playing with her, feeding her, or going out for a walk with her.
OP was pleased with what she had been witnessing.
Neighbor’s Tales
However, this joyful feeling didn’t last long for OP. A few days before this story was posted, her neighbor told her that as soon as OP would leave, the baby “cries and cries for hours.”
She even told OP she knocked on their door, and her husband “finally answered it.” Her neighbor told her that her husband had been sleeping.
OP’s Conclusion
Given the story she had just heard from her neighbor, OP concluded that her husband, indeed, was sleeping all day. She guessed that right before she returned from work, he would wake up and “pretend to care for her.”
Proving Herself Right
The next day, OP decided to take the day off work but not tell her husband. She left at her usual time and waited for 30 minutes before coming back home.
She shared, “Sure enough, he was knocked out asleep with his stupid noise-canceling headphones on.”
It’s Time You Learned!
OP went straight to her daughter’s room, scooped her out, and went to her friend’s house. She waited two hours before finally calling her husband, telling him she would come home early that day.
A Panicked Husband
Then, her husband called back and told her he couldn’t find the baby! He was so panicked that he told OP he would call the police.
It’s a Lesson
However, before he could do so, OP told him what she had done. Her husband then labeled her an a**hole “and a lot of other words, too.”
Support From Family or Not Really?
She headed home, and when she got there, her mother-in-law was there, “calming his nerves” since he had a panic attack. Her mother-in-law also called her an a**hole for what she did!
Terrible Person?
After the chaos, her husband slept at his mom’s house. Other family members accused OP of being a “terrible person” as well.
However, though OP believed what she did was extreme, she doesn’t think she should consider herself an a**hole.
Redditors’ Opinions on the Matter
The community could not believe how genuinely irresponsible OP’s husband was.
A top comment was, “Sleeping with noise-canceling headphones as the only adult in the home caring for a four-month-old? Absolutely not the a**hole.” Another wrote, “Keep the headphones and throw the husband in the dumpster. She can use the headphones to ignore his whining.”
Time for a Divorce
Though a lot of Redditors didn’t advocate for suggesting a divorce in the comments section of Reddit threads, they believed that in this specific instance, OP should seriously be considering it.
“You are lucky your neighbor told you and didn’t call CPS because this is neglect and dangerous. I’d divorce my husband over this, period,” shared one user. Another replied, “I’m not a fan of Reddit’s frequent suggestions to divorce the dude, but in this case, I totally agree with it. He put your child in incredible danger.”
I Can’t Believe Your Mother-In-Law Did That!
People were also shocked that her mother-in-law sided with her husband. After all, grandparents are known to protect their grandkids and go above and beyond.
One said, “If my husband had done something like OP’s husband did, my mother-in-law would have ripped him a new one. No one messed with the safety of her grandbabies.” Another shared, “My dad’s mom was a barely functional alcoholic, and even she’d see this as abhorrent.”
What do you think? Should OP start thinking about her marriage?
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This post first appeared as Her Lazy and Irresponsible Husband Didn’t Take Care of Their Daughter Properly; He Doesn’t Even Cook or Clean! So, She “Kidnapped” Their Baby to Make Him Realize His Mistakes! on Quote Ambition.
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